Hand over the ice cream to your cat. This both comforts and encourages while you lose the dead weight.
Do you feel like any of the following:
- You’re doing something wrong, something is missing in your life
- Your love for yourself is overshadowed by your love for others
- It’s easier than ever to get consumed by dread, doubt, uncertainty, and fear
- Who could love someone like you anyway?
- You just weren’t meant for happiness
- You’ll make the wrong decision and mess up
- Good things are only temporary
- Maybe you’re just ‘broken’, everyone else seems fine
- There is no way out of this vicious cycle
Let’s get one thing straight though before you start picking up the pieces of your life…
There is no one-size-fits-all kind of happiness.
Why should you have to live your life the way others want? Why should your life look like theirs? If their form of happiness isn’t yours, why pretend it is?
What makes one person can make another miserable.
For example, some people love living in the country side, others prefer the city. That doesn’t make it wrong, nor does it mean we shouldn’t try to understand one another, but it just means happiness for one is not the same as for the other. Didn’t Goldilocks and the three bears teach us this already?
Though Goldilocks should have found her own stuff, the point is that everyone has different preferences, and that’s okay.
But you’ve got to try it to know what they are, and you’ve got to honor them once you find out what they are.
So what would you change about your life?
It’s time to open your mind and love yourself for real. Your life is your own and you have the right to make it as you want it.
What you ‘should’ want, what you ‘should’ do, what you ‘should’ be, and what you ‘should’ feel… Scrunch your ‘shoulds’ in a ball, shove them in a rocket and fire that rocket straight into the sun.
Don’t wish to be like anyone else.
Don’t take on their passions unless your heart’s in it.
Do what you love, say what you love, wear what you love, eat what you love , be with people you love being with, and love your life.
Of course, there are some things you can’t change (yet).
You may not be able to change people or situations, but you can change the way you see them.
By changing the way you think and feel about yourself, you will change your life.
Are you ready to create your own version of happiness?
It’s time to change your perspective.
Did you know that self-love affects your decision making and every little interaction in your daily life?
This book is an easy to digest dose of joy, hope, optimism, and love.
Like a Dr Seuss for adults based on Louise Hay’s ‘ How You Can Heal Your Life ’affirmations, its empowering rhymes give you the message you need in that moment to calm your anxieties, get out of your head, and feel better about yourself and your life.
Say Yes to…
- Feeling stronger and more confident, even in challenging times
- Flipping the script on how you see people and situations
- Loving yourself no matter what
- Calming yourself down easily whenever you feel anxious or stressed
- Realizing how loved, valued, accepted, and powerful you truly are
- Feeling like you can do anything you dream of
- Choosing yourself, removing barriers, and reaching your full potential
- A sense of belonging and encouragement on your self-love journey